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How to Start a Journal | The Ultimate Guide to Building a Journaling Habit

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I’m gonna let you in on a secret. I used to suck at keeping a daily journal.

Almost every single one of my new entries would start with “sorry I haven’t written in a while…” I also used to have so many empty journals collecting dust on my shelf. Never in my life had I actually fully filled a journal.

That was the case, at least until just a few years ago.

In college, when I first got started on my personal growth journey, was when I finally got the habit to stick.

And in less than a year I finally filled up one of my journals.

Journaling has now become one of my favorite ways to start my day. After making a cup of coffee, it’s the first thing I do in my morning routine.

It helped me realize that I needed to drop out of college. It helped me get gain clarity on my goals and dreams for my life.

Journaling can help you in so many areas of your life (but more on that in a second).

If you are new to the world of journaling, this is article is designed to help you get started. You’ll learn how to start a journal from scratch, the different journaling methods and strategies, and how to make it into a habit.

Or maybe you’re like me –  you like the idea of starting or ending your day with journaling, but for the life of you, can’t make it into a daily habit.

Well, I’m going to let you in on a few secrets that will help you start the habit and keep it. So you can finally fill one of those countless empty journals around you house.

I’ll warn you, this is a long and detailed post, but I know you’ll get a lot of value from it. I would recommend pinning this article so you can come back to it again.

I’m so excited to welcome you to the world of journaling.

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A girl writing in her journal | How to start a journal

 


How to Start a Journal: Find Your Why

The first step to start journaling is really simple. All you need is an empty notebook and a pen.

Yep, that’s it.

Well, I guess there might be a bit more to it.

Firstly, I recommend you dive deep into why you really want to start a journal in the first place.

Just like when you get starting building any new habit and routine, you need some way to keep you motivated, and that’s why I always recommend coming up with your “Why Statement”. This why statement should clearly articulate the reason or purpose behind why you want to build this new habit.

Start my asking yourself the following questions:

  1. Why do I want to start a journal?
  2. What do I hope to get out of it?
  3. What do I want to accomplish?

It’ll be much easier to build this new journaling habit if you understand WHY you actually want to do it. Once you have an answer, write it out as a full sentence like this:

  • I want to start journaling to better understand my thoughts and feelings and gain more clarity
  • I want to start keeping a journal on a regular basis to document my life and my memories.

Once you’ve done that, write it on a post-it or piece of paper that you can stick on the inside of cover of whatever you’re going to journal in. Read this statement every day to remind yourself why you are trying to build this into a habit.

Do you have your why? Awesome, now let’s actually get started.



The Benefits of Journaling

There are so many benefits of journaling.

My favorite benefit is that it allows me to slow down in this stressful and ever-changing adventure we call life.

As you realize how beneficial it is to journal daily, you’ll want to do it first thing every morning.

Here are some more journaling benefits to get you motived to start your journaling journey:

  • Gain clarity and focus
  • Increased productivity
  • Improves your mood
  • Makes you more likely to chase your goals
  • Boost confidence
  • Increase self-awareness
  • Decreases stress and overwhelm
  • And sparks creativity

There are No Rules When Journaling!

The best part about journaling is there are absolutely no rules.

You don’t have to be a good writer or have good handwriting.

Allow for mistakes, grammar errors, and messy handwriting. It’s all you.

Just let your stream of consciousness flow freely.

One of the main points of journaling is to learn how to express yourself in a carefree way when no one is watching.

There is no judgment in your journal because it’s your journal!

Different Types of Journals

Alright, now for the fun part. Let’s figure out which type of journaling you should start with.

Remember that you aren’t marrying this type right now. Pick one form to test out for a couple of weeks and then you can evaluate whether you want to stick with it or try a new one.

Every person will journal differently and the type of journaling you decide is best for you will be based on your WHY.

Remember how we discussed your why just a bit ago? Use the answer to those few questions to help you figure out what type of journaling will be best for you.

Here are 9 types of journals to choose from:

Bullet Journal

Bullet journaling has grown a lot in the past few years. Many people use it as a journal for productivity and goal setting. The overall concept was invented by Ryder Carroll and is best described as a mindfulness practice disguised as a productivity system. Head to Pinterest to see examples, there are tons of them over there.

Morning Pages

The idea of Morning Pages originated from the book “The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron, and the main idea is to do stream-of-consciousness writing. The morning pages are usually done in the morning when our brains are the most creative. No thinking allowed, just start writing until 2-3 pages are filled.

Gratitude Journal

This one is pretty self-explanatory. Many people recommend starting and ending the day by writing what you are most grateful for. If that doesn’t resonate with you, try asking yourself what made you the happiest today.

Dream Journal

Dream journals are devoted to your dreams. They can be dreams you have while you are sleeping or what you daydream about throughout the day. Either way, write down a few sentences every morning about a dream you had or what you dream of for your future self.

Brain Dumping Journal

A brain-dumping journal is the only type of journal that I’d say you should keep with you at all times. It is meant to be a place for you to jot down any new ideas whenever they come to you so you don’t forget about them.

Scrapbooks

Not many people think of the scrapbook as a journal type but it’s more than just a place for photos. You can gather memories, dreams, or create mood boards. Basically, a scrapbook is where you can gather a bunch of images and put them together in an artsy way that’s just you. And you can write about the images to add a story to each page.

The Dear Diary Journal

The most basic and common form of journaling. I probably don’t need to explain it. But for just a quick explanation, I like to think of the dear diary journal like you are telling your future self about anything you want. What you did that day, what you hope happens if you do something. Basically anything.

Guided Journals

If you still don’t know where to start, you could try a guided journal. The most popular one out there is the Five Minute Journal. It only takes 5-minutes every day to fill out. I’ll talk more about it soon.



When to Journal

It can be really easy to just toss your journal off to the side and save it for a rainy day, but most of the benefits we talked about earlier come from daily journaling.

It can be hard to implement at first if you are new to it. The best way to start a habit is to do it in small doses.

You don’t have to journal for a whole hour or aim to fill a whole page.

If you make a habit overwhelming, you will never actually start it.

Instead, start with setting aside just 1 minute every day to journal – just to start with.

Write about anything.

A minute isn’t a lot so the excuse of ‘I don’t have time’ won’t exist.

I would also recommend you journal at around the same time every day if you can. That way your brain can associate a time with a habit which will make it easier to be consistent.

You can also link it with an activity you already do – like drinking your coffee or right after you give your pet breakfast.

Whatever it is, linking journaling to an already existing habit will make it a ritual of your daily routine.


Journaling Supplies

Like I said at the beginning, you really don’t need a lot to start a journal. Just a notebook and a pen.

However, you can make journaling more appealing if you have a pretty journal and your favorite pen to write with.

Here are some supplies ideas to get you started:

Pretty Journals

Pens

Whiteout

Fun Stencils

Inspirational stickers


Famous Guided Journals on Amazon

The Five-Minute Journal

This is an un-dated guided journal that will boost your happiness in just 5 minutes a day. Each page includes thoughtfully designed prompts that include: gratitude, prioritizing your day, 3 amazing things, inspiring quotes, daily affirmations, and end of the day self-reflection. The Five-Minute Journal is known as “The Simplest Way to Start Your Day Happy”.

The Best Journal Ever

The Best Journal Ever is a guided 3-in-1 journal that includes a place for gratitude journaling, habit tracking, and monthly reflection. This undated journal has enough pages to get you through 6 months without needing to buy another journal. Each daily page includes a place to track your sleep, an inspirational quote, gratitude, affirmations, and a half-page for daily journaling.

A Year of Zen: A 52-Week Guided Journal

A Year of Zen Guided Journal combines the practices of Zen Buddhism with journaling to help you live mindfully, gain clarity and perspective, and let go of stress and worries. This journal includes journal prompts for every day of the year that inspire self-exploration, reflection, and mindfulness that will help you live a happier more fulfilled life.

The Untethered Soul Guided Journal: Practices to Journey Beyond Yourself

This guided journal is based on the New York Times bestseller The Untethered Soul. It offers new practices for inspiration, freedom, and joy. The exercises and prompts included in the journal are paired with the original passages from the book. The prompts will help you to live more in the present moment, and achieve lasting joy and self-realization.

Use Journal Prompts

If you are still struggling with trying to figure out what to write about, journal prompts can be a great way to get started.

Journal prompts are simple questions you ask yourself and then answer in your journal.

I have tons of different journal prompts on my Pinterest board to help you get started.

Or sign up for my email list below to get a pdf printable of 30 personal growth journal prompts in checklist form to get you started right away.

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Other Journaling Tips

Here are a couple more tips when it comes to starting a journal:

  • Start slow
  • Include journaling in your morning routine
  • Use journal prompts
  • Just try it and don’t make it a big deal
  • Go back and review what you’ve written to learn more about yourself
  • Draw, create art, use stickers; it doesn’t just have to be words
  • Have fun with it!

Final Thoughts on Journaling

Journaling should not be something you dread doing every day. Please don’t make it feel like a chore.

Journaling is a type of self-care that you do for yourself. Enjoy it.

I hope you found this guide on how to start a journal helpful and that you are excited to start developing your new journaling habit.

Let me know in the comments your favorite type of journaling and how it works for you.

Journaling has truly changed my life and I know it can change yours, too.

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Are you ready to start your personal growth journey but don’t know where to start? This guide is for you: The Ultimate Personal Growth Guide. Learn the strategies you need to work on self-improvement and become the best version of you!


Famous Guided Journals on Amazon

The Five-Minute Journal

This is an un-dated guided journal that will boost your happiness in just 5 minutes a day. Each page includes thoughtfully designed prompts that include: gratitude, prioritizing your day, 3 amazing things, inspiring quotes, daily affirmations, and end of the day self-reflection. The Five-Minute Journal is known as “The Simplest Way to Start Your Day Happy”.

The Best Journal Ever

The Best Journal Ever is a guided 3-in-1 journal that includes a place for gratitude journaling, habit tracking, and monthly reflection. This undated journal has enough pages to get you through 6 months without needing to buy another journal. Each daily page includes a place to track your sleep, an inspirational quote, gratitude, affirmations, and a half-page for daily journaling.

A Year of Zen: A 52-Week Guided Journal

A Year of Zen Guided Journal combines the practices of Zen Buddhism with journaling to help you live mindfully, gain clarity and perspective, and let go of stress and worries. This journal includes journal prompts for every day of the year that inspire self-exploration, reflection, and mindfulness that will help you live a happier more fulfilled life.

The Untethered Soul Guided Journal: Practices to Journey Beyond Yourself

This guided journal is based on the New York Times bestseller The Untethered Soul. It offers new practices for inspiration, freedom, and joy. The exercises and prompts included in the journal are paired with the original passages from the book. The prompts will help you to live more in the present moment, and achieve lasting joy and self-realization.

Use Journal Prompts

If you are still struggling with trying to figure out what to write about, journal prompts can be a great way to get started.

Journal prompts are simple questions you ask yourself and then answer in your journal.

I have tons of different journal prompts on my Pinterest board to help you get started.

Or sign up for my email list below to get a pdf printable of 30 personal growth journal prompts in checklist form to get you started right away.

Click here to subscribe

Other Journaling Tips

Here are a couple more tips when it comes to starting a journal:

  • Start slow
  • Include journaling in your morning routine
  • Use journal prompts
  • Just try it and don’t make it a big deal
  • Go back and review what you’ve written to learn more about yourself
  • Draw, create art, use stickers; it doesn’t just have to be words
  • Have fun with it!

Final Thoughts on Journaling

Journaling should not be something you dread doing every day. Please don’t make it feel like a chore.

Journaling is a type of self-care that you do for yourself. Enjoy it.

I hope you found this guide on how to start a journal helpful and that you are excited to start developing your new journaling habit.

Let me know in the comments your favorite type of journaling and how it works for you.

Journaling has truly changed my life and I know it can change yours, too.

Pin it so more people can enjoy?

Are you ready to start your personal growth journey but don’t know where to start? This guide is for you: The Ultimate Personal Growth Guide. Learn the strategies you need to work on self-improvement and become the best version of you!

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Slay Your Goals Planner Review

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How has 2022 been going so far for you? Have you achieved any goals yet? Or did you, like many others, aim for a super high goal at the beginning of the year to only give up by the 21st day of the year? If that’s you I have something super amazing to help you out, because it’s never too late in the year to make a plan to slay your goals. You just need a goals planner that will help you take action and keep taking action.

In late 2020, I was working on setting my goals for the new year, but I couldn’t figure out how to plan them out to actually motivate me to work on them all year long. I needed a plan to help keep me on track.

That’s when I discovered Nadalie Bardo’s Slay Your Goals Planner, which is a completely digital printable planner to help you achieve your goals. I didn’t even have to wait for shipping. So I bought it and got started with it right away.

slay your goals planner complete review

What is the Slay Your Goals Planner?

The Slay Your Goals Planner is a digital printable planner that helps you plan out your goals for the whole year. There is a lot of information and strategies for goal planning inside so you can be sure to find the way that works the best with your brain.

The version I have has 102 pages that guide you through different areas related to goal setting. Here’s a breakdown of the planner by chapters:

  • Chapter 1: Set Your Intention
  • Chapter 2: Choose Your #1 Goal
  • Chapter 3: Select 4 “Mini” Goals
  • Chapter 4: Plan Your Year
  • Chapter 5: Crush Your To-Dos
  • Chapter 6: Review Your Goals

Use Your Planner Anyway You Want

Although the planner is designed as a printable planner, you don’t need to print out all 102 pages (that’s a lot of ink and paper anyway). You can either choose which pages to print out as you need them, or you can just type right into the pdf document. Isn’t that awesome?

Or if you have an iPad with Goodnotes, like I do, you can download it and write right on it with the apple pencil.

Basically what I’m saying is, don’t be turned off by how big the planner is because you don’t have to print all those pages, if you don’t want, in order to use it.

Other Planner Features

There are so many motivational and inspirational quotes throughout the planner so you’ll feel motivated and inspired all year long.

Another feature of the planner is that it’s date free. So you can continue to use it year after year. Unlike physical planners you’d buy in the store, you can buy it once and just reprint or make a new digital copy every year.

It’s the only planner you’ll ever need.


The Slay Your Goals Planner Chapters

Early I mentioned how the planner was broken down into chapters, well now let me dive even deeper into what’s in each chapter of the slay your goals planner.

slay your goals planner chapters

Chapter 1: Set Your Intentions

Before you can begin to set your goals, you have to make sure to set your intentions for the year. This chapter includes:

  • Set Your Intention Worksheet
  • Your Life in Fast Forward
  • Intentional Life Audit and Pie Chart
  • Letter of Intention

Chapter 2: Choose Your #1 Goal

The next step is setting your direct and priorities for the next year. Your #1 goals is where you’re aiming to be in the next year. This chapter includes:

  • Goal Digging Brainstorm
  • Investigate Your Intention
  • Intention Prism, Mindmap + Triangle
  • S.M.A.R.T. Goals and R.I.G.H.T. Goals

Chapter 3: Select 4 “Mini” goals

It can be hard to stay focused on one big overwhelming goal all year long. That’s why the next chapter is all about choosing 4 “mini” goals to keep you motivated with quick wins. This chapter includes:

  • Investigate Your Goal Worksheets
  • Goal SWOT Analysis + Mind Map
  • Quarterly Goals Forecast
  • Yearly Goals Tracker

Chapter 4: Plan Your Year

Next, it’s time to map out your year with ease using fillable yearly and monthly planner pages. This chapter includes:

  • One-Page Yearly Plan
  • 2022 + 2023 Dated Calendars
  • Strategic Planning Road Map
  • Yearly Goals Overview
  • Fillable Yearly & Monthly Planners

Chapter 5: Crush Your To-Dos

In this chapter, you’ll learn how to hack your to-do list by focusing only on what’s important and urgent. This chapter includes:

  • Monthly Goal Planners + Trackers
  • Prioritization Pages
  • To-Do List Templates
  • Fillable Weekly & Daily Planners
  • Daily Reflection Pages

Chapter 6: Review Your Goals

At the very end of the planner is the most important part, the review section. By knowing where things went right and wrong, you can plan how to overcome the challenges and setbacks if they come up again. This chapter includes:

  • One-Page Monthly Review
  • Monthly Goal Checkers
  • Quarterly Review Questions
  • One-Page Yearly Review

The Pros and Cons: Slay Your Goals Planner Review

Like any planner out there, there are pros and cons and I want to make sure you know them before you make a choice.

A pro and a con is that this planner is packed full of worksheets and calendars that it can appear overwhelming at first. But for what you pay for the planner I couldn’t believe how much was included.

There are many goal planners out there but what I like about the slay your goals planner is the variety of worksheets that can help anybody make goal-setting super easy.

Final Thoughts

The bottom line is I really like this planner, and I’ve tried TONS of planners in the past. I found it super helpful in getting clear about what I wanted to focus on this year. Plus it really helped me break down my big year goal into small less overwhelming actionable steps.

If you’d like to give this planner a try, click here.

Thank you Nadalie for creating this wonderful planner. I look forward to continuing to use it throughout the rest of this year.

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How to Create a Personal Development Plan

How to create a personal development plan

A few years ago, I started on my own personal development journey, and man, oh man has it been an incredible journey.

Once you commit to always working on becoming the best version of yourself, the possibilities are endless.

I want to help guide you through your personal development journey too. And the best way to do that is by making a personal development plan.

Making a personal growth and development plan will give you a clear overview of where you want to go and who you want to become. You’ll be able to make decisions easier because you already know what path you want to be on.

So if you’re ready to start improving your life, keep reading, because I’m gonna help you create your own personal development plan.

How to Create a Personal Development Plan and Kickstart Your Personal Growth Journey

What is Personal Development?

Before we start planning your personal development journey, let’s talk about what it is exactly.

Personal development, aka personal growth or self-development, is essentially the ongoing act of assessing your life goals and values. There is no set end or technical completion of “personal development”. Rather it’s an ongoing lifelong process.

You are never done learning because there is always more to learn. Humans are lifelong learners.

Also, as you go through life, your personal development goals will change to reflect who you are becoming.

Throughout your life, you’re building the skills and qualities to reach your max potential in certain areas of your life.

The skills you learn can contribute to your maturity, success, and satisfaction. You can develop these skills through education, advice from a mentor, personal development books, and more.

Want to learn more about personal growth? Check out this ebook The Ultimate Personal Growth Guide. You’ll learn 10 different strategies for working on yourself and start taking steps towards becoming the best version of yourself!

Why You Should Have a Personal Development Plan

“A goal without a plan is just a wish.” – Antoine de-Saint Exupery

Did you know personal development is essential if you want to reach your goals and create the life of your dreams?

You can’t just say “I’m gonna run a half marathon next summer” with no plan on how you are going to train.

Having a concrete and clearly defined personal development plan will help you to actually accomplish the goals you set for yourself, rather than putting them on the back burner every single day and only pulling them out when you “feel” like it.

It’s like making your own road map to a dream life.

Without a plan, you won’t get the results you really want.

personal development quote

 

Create Your Personal Development Plan

Alright now that you know exactly what personal development is and the benefits, let’s create your personal development plan.

But where do we begin? Well, that will depend on what your goals are now.

So, the first step is to determine your goals.

1. What are your Personal Development Goals?

Before we turn our dreams into reality, we must first determine what exactly those dreams are.

If you don’t quite know, think about what’s important to you. NOT what everyone else says should be important to you.

Society has always told us that money, good looks, and fame are what define success. But you don’t have to be like that. Determine what success means to you.

What’s your definition of success? What’s most important to you? What does your ideal life look like?

Know Yourself

If you don’t quite know the answers to those questions, take some time to get to know yourself a bit better.

My favorite way to do this is to journal with the above questions in mind.

You could also use some other personal growth journal prompts like:

  • What activities bring me the most joy?
  • What stresses me out the most?
  • Am I happy with my current lifestyle? If not, what would I like to change?

Grab the FREE Journal Prompts below and start journaling every day. You’ll be amazed at how much you can learn about yourself by just having a conversation with yourself on paper every day.

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Level 10 Life

To help determine the areas of your life you’d like to improve I like to use a system called the Level 10 Life. This method, created by Hal Elrod, helps you get a better understanding of how you feel about your current state of life.

Essentially you want to reach level 10 in each area of your life.

You can be flexible with what categories you choose to focus on but the basic categories are:

  • Health and Fitness
  • Physical Environment
  • Giving and/or Contribution
  • Fun and Recreation
  • Marriage or Relationship
  • Career
  • Finances
  • Spiritual
  • Family and Friends

I use this method to help me come up with goals in each of the categories.

Choosing a goal for each category can be overwhelming at first so try starting with just your top 3 areas you want to focus on and go from there.

Now that you have the 3 main areas of your life you want to focus on, come up with a goal for each area.

For a more in-depth explanation of the Level 10 Life, check out this blog post.

 

Examples of Personal Development Goals

Here are some examples of goals for each category to help you out:

Health and Fitness
  • Workout 3-5 times a week
  • Eat 5 servings of fruits and vegetables a day
  • Drink half your body weight in oz of water each day
Physical Environment
  • Do a 15-minute clean up every day before bed
  • Develop a cleaning schedule
  • Renovate your office
Giving and/or Contribution
  • Donate a percentage of your income to a charity
  • Volunteer at a homeless shelter
  • Donate food to your local food bank
Fun and Recreation
  • Get out and go hiking once a week
  • Read 1 book a month
  • Learn to play an instrument
Marriage and Relationships
  • Go on a date every Friday
  • Improve your listening/communication skills
  • Tell your spouse how much you love them every day
Career
  • Enroll in relevant training/school
  • Get promoted
  • Start a new career
Finances
  • Have an emergency fund
  • Open a retirement account
  • Pay off debt
Spiritual
  • Spread unconditional love
  • Participate in a bible devotional group
  • Meditate every day
Family and Friends
  • Plan an outing with friends/family once a month
  • Have a family reunion every summer
  • Go on vacation with your best friend

Make sure you write down your top 3 goals somewhere and then we’ll continue on to step #2.

hal elrod quote

2. How Are You Going to Reach Your Personal Development Goals?

Now that you have your goals, let’s make a plan for how you’re going to achieve them.

As I mentioned earlier, a goal without a plan is just a wish.

And you want your wishes to come true, right? So let’s make changes happen in your life.

We’re gonna set up a whole plan of attack to reach your goals.

In order to do that we are going to turn our goals into SMART goals.

What are SMART goals, you may ask?

Here’s what SMART stands for:

  • Specific – your goals need to be clear, detailed, and specific
  • Measurable – Your goals need to be measurable so you can track your progress and know exactly when you’ve achieved them.
  • Achievable – Make sure your goals are realistic (some goals are just not achievable – but then again with the right mindset you can do anything, right? – though seriously be smart when creating your goals, for example, while losing 30 pounds in a week sounds awesome, that can be very unhealthy)
  • Relevant – Are your goals relevant to your life purpose? Make sure that your goals are truly driven by your personal growth. Go back to those journaling prompts above if you aren’t sure.
  • Time-bound – Set a time limit for when you want to try and achieve the goals. Remember you can always change it later if needed.

Still don’t completely understand SMART goals?

Here’s an example.

One of my goals is to run a marathon by the end of 2022 so turning that goal into a SMART goal would look like this:

Specific – I want to run a marathon (specifically marathon, not half marathon, not an ultra, a marathon)

Measurable – Marathon is already measurable so I will know when I reach this goal because I will have run a full 26.2 miles.

Achievable – I know this is achievable because I have run long distances before and I am already in a healthy state. Notice how my goal is not to run a marathon by next week, that would be crazy since I’ve never run even a half marathon before.

Relevant – One of my lifelong goals is to live well into my 90s and still be able to move around and play with my grandkids (maybe even great-grandkids). So wanting to train for a marathon and having a love of running is something that contributes to that lifelong health and fitness goal.

Time-bound – I want to run a marathon by the end of 2022. Picking a date of December 31st, 2021 makes my goal time-specific. I could go deeper into how fast I want to run this marathon, but my main goal is to simply finish my first marathon.

I hope that helps you understand how to make sure your goal is a SMART goal.

For more help, check out this blog post: How to Set SMART Goals


3. Personal Development Planning 101

Now that you know your top 3 goals and made them specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound, it’s time to start planning.

Write it down

Your chances of reaching any goal increase if you write it down.

I know it sounds like a small step, but writing it down can be the most important thing. It can be the difference between reaching your goal and falling short.

So write your goal down on a piece of paper and don’t lose that paper, we aren’t done with it yet.

Have your goal written everywhere

This sounds strange but I want you to write down your goal on several sticky notes and put them all over the house.

Put one on the bathroom mirror, in your daily journal, in your lunch box, on the fridge, on your computer, etc.

Putting it everywhere will keep your goals in mind all the time, hence you’ll always be motivated to work towards them.

Plus, it gives you extra accountability because you probably share the bathroom and fridge with someone else, so if you see it every day so will your roommates or significant other and they’ll keep asking you how’s that goal coming along so you can take down that sticky note ?

Break down your goals

It’s really cool to see a big goal at first, but then it can become overwhelming.

If you don’t break down your big goal into smaller goals you may never even want to start working on your goal because it seems so daunting.

So let’s break down your big goal into smaller actionable steps, or “mini-goals”.

Taking my ‘run a marathon by the end of 2022’ example:

Running a marathon by the end of 2022, which is 10 months from now, can become: run a half marathon by the end of July.

Which then becomes: run a 10k by the end of April.

Then break it down for how much to run every week, like run X distance 3-4 times a week (I have a pretty specific weekly running plan but I won’t bore you with it)

As you achieve each of these “mini-goals” you’ll already be working towards your big goal with what will seem like half the work, which is exactly the point.

No matter your goal, keep breaking it down until they are so small they sound super easy.

Make time to reach your goals.

We all struggle with not having enough time in the day.

This is why we broke down our goals into super small bit size goals that can be completed in just a few minutes each day.

If your personal development goal is super important to you, you will want to work on it anyway. Setting aside time each day to work on your goals should be something you look forward to.

So again taking my marathon training example, I have implemented running for a set time and distance every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday. Running has become a part of my morning routine that I never miss because I enjoy it and want to succeed.

I recommend making 1-3 of your “mini-goals” into habits you do every day. Working on them every day will help you get closer and closer to achieving your goal.

Track Your Progress and Celebrate Every Win

Last but certainly not least, the most important step: Track your progress and celebrate every win along the way to your big goal.

Our energy levels, motivation, mood, etc. vary from day to day. Some days it will be easier to want to work on your goals than others.

The best way to keep yourself motivated is to track your progress. Watching a progress bar get closer and closer to the end is motivating, which is why we created the small goals to help you visualize it.

Yes, you should keep the end goal in mind, but focusing on the smaller goal can be easier to track and keep you motivated.

And finally, reward yourself. Celebrate every time you reach one of your “mini-goals”. Plan your reward in advance so you have something to look forward to.

Always take some time to realize how far you have come to keep you motivated to keep moving forward.


I hope this helped you to start planning your personal development goals. Every time you reach one of your goals, make sure to celebrate. It is a big deal to reach something you’ve been working on for months or even years.

And after you complete one goal, reflect on it, journal about it, and then pick a new big personal development goal and make a new plan, because it is never too late to start building the life of your dreams.

Are you ready to start your personal growth journey but don’t know where to start? This guide is for you: The Ultimate Personal Growth Guide. Learn the strategies you need to work on self-improvement and become the best version of yourself!

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How to Create a Morning Routine and Stick To It

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Are you ready to stop having crappy days where you’re tired all the time and unmotivated?

Then you need to make sure you’re starting your day on the right foot.

And in order to do that, you need to create a morning routine.

But hold on, before you go searching on youtube for the “perfect morning routine”, you need to know that everyone’s morning routine is different.

And it has to be, otherwise, it wouldn’t be created with your unique circumstances and likes and dislikes in mind.

Obviously, you wouldn’t have the same morning routine as an Olympic swimmer or a mother with 2 toddlers. That just doesn’t make sense.

You have to create a morning route that’s curated to your unique lifestyle.

And that’s exactly what we’re gonna do today.

This blog post contains my five-step process to create a morning routine that you love and that works for you and your lifestyle.

Let’s get started.

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Step 1: Review Your Current Morning Routine

Before you can start creating your “perfect” morning routine you need to review your current one.

Believe it or not, you already have a morning routine. If you pay attention, you’ll notice you do almost the same exact thing every morning.

Hitting snooze every morning may be part of your routine. Not eating breakfast or running out the door could also be a part of your routine.

Let’s take some time to examine your current routine.

Ask yourself these questions:

  • How early do you get up?
  • Do you have enough time to get ready before work/school?
  • Are you getting enough sleep?
  • Do you feel refreshed and ready to tackle the day?
  • Do you eat breakfast every morning?

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Step 2: Discover Your Why

If you want to stick to a new routine, you need to define your why. Why do you want to create a morning routine?

When you’re struggling to get out of bed, remembering why it’s important to you will be super helpful.

Maybe it’s because you don’t want to feel rushed out the door every morning. Or you want more time with your kids before they run to catch the bus. Or you want to start your day with some personal development time.

Whatever it is, write it down.

Why do you want to create a morning routine and what do you want to get out of it?

Step 3: Brainstorm the Possibilities

Alright, here’s where we have fun.

Now that you know your current routine and why you want to make it better, let’s decide what you want your new routine to look like.

Brainstorm what you want to include in your morning routine.

What do you want to achieve in your first hour of the day?

Write down all your ideas and how much time you would spend on them.

If you’re having troubles coming up with some ideas, check out this blog post for 20 Morning Routine Ideas that will Make You Want to Get Up

Step 4: Plan Out Your Morning Routine

Now that you have a list of things you want to include in your morning routine, write down what you want it to look like.

Try to build off your current routine if you can. That will make it easier to implement.

If you normally go straight to the shower when you get up, keep that the same but then add one of your new activities right after, like reading or journaling.

If you’re having a hard time deciding on your routine, make a couple of different possible routines.

You could try the first one for one week and then another one the week after.

And at the end of each week reflect on how you felt they went and if you need to change something.

Pro Tip: Most people don’t want to get up in the morning because they don’t have something to look forward to in their day. Include an activity in your morning routine that you love but don’t normally have time for during the day. This will motivate you to get up earlier so you have time for something you love.

Step 5: Create an Evening Routine

Congrats – you have a morning routine, but you’re not done yet.

Getting up feeling motivated and refreshed starts the night before so you need to create an evening routine too.

It doesn’t have to be as detailed as your morning routine, but pick a few activities that will wind you down before bed so you can fall asleep faster. And do a few things that will make your morning easier like setting out your outfit, or packing your lunch.

My evening routine includes a quick 15-minute clean-up, setting out my workout clothes, filling up my water bottle for the morning, and reading for 30-60 minutes.

Decide on the activities you will include in your evening routine that will help you carry out your morning routine.

Two Tips To Help You Get Up

Place your alarm clock across the room!

Yep, it’s as simple as that.

Many people have built a habit of grabbing their phone, pressing snooze, and rolling back over.

So put your alarm on the other side of the room so you have to get up to shut it off.

Stop using your phone as your alarm!

Another habit people have is shutting their alarm off on their phone and then scrolling through social media for the first half-hour they’re awake.

This not only wastes time but can also affect your mood and mindset for the rest of the day.

Instead, try this alarm clock.

This sunrise alarm clock is my favorite. I got it a couple of years ago and now refuse to use another alarm clock.

The alarm simulates the sunrise in your room. Using it has been life-changing because I get up way before the sunrises (yes even in the summer).

When you set the time for the alarm to go off you also decide what time to start the “sunrise effect”. You can choose to have it start 10-30 minutes before the alarm is set to go off. It will slowly get brighter and brighter throughout that time.

You also have the choice of alarm sounds that aren’t blaring and annoying first thing in the morning. I set mine to have birds chirping as my alarm.

With this sunrise alarm clock across the room, it lights up my whole room gradually to gently wake me up.

Try it for yourself. I will never go back to a regular alarm clock.

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Final Thoughts

Now that you have a morning routine and an evening routine, set your alarm to do your first new morning routine tomorrow.

Start with your evening routine tonight and you should be all set to have an awesome and productive day tomorrow.

Don’t procrastinate until next Monday or next week. There will never be a “better” day than right now.

Set your alarm and start each morning on the right foot with your own personal morning routine.

For more inspiration on morning routines, check out these books:

The Miracle Morning – Hal Elrod

The 5 am Club – Robin Sharma

College Students: I made a morning routine blog post specifically for you. Go check it out!

More Blog Posts on Morning Routines:

The Incredible Magic of Having a Morning Routine

10 Amazing Benefits of Waking Up Early and Having a Morning Routine

How to Stop Hitting Snooze | 5 Smart Tips for Breaking the Habit

20 Morning Routine Ideas that will Make You Want to Get Up

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The Best Way to Start Your Day | 4 Things You Should Do Every Morning

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There are many articles and books that have claimed to have found the best way to start your day. But what they fail to mention is that no one’s morning routine should be the exact same.

In fact, if you copy someone else’s morning routine, you’ll never experiment to find exactly what you actually want and need in the morning. You will also always struggle to get up in the morning because you aren’t actually looking forward to doing someone else’s morning routine.

After many years of studying and testing out the best things you should do in the morning, I’ve come up with 4 categories of things that you should include in your morning routine. Not exact habits to do, but rather categories of habits so you can pick which things you want to do, while still experiencing the benefits of getting up earlier than everyone else.

So without further ado, here is the best way to start your day.

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The Best Way To Start Your Day

The point of having a morning routine is so that you can start the day on your terms. So you can slowly wake up and not feel rushed before the sun even rises.

But when it comes to what exactly should be included in your morning routine, it can be hard to figure out. I’ve come up with 4 categories of things you should do every morning.

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4 Things You Should Do Every Morning

Spend Time In Silence

While many people say that you should meditate in the morning, I find that I can gain the benefits of sitting in silence in other ways too.

You could spend time journaling anything that comes to mind, many of my best ideas have come from a silent room with just me and my journal early in the morning.

Spend time in prayer and/or gratitude. Silently list in your head all the things you’re grateful for and thank God for each and every one of them. Over time this practice can shift your brain to a more positive mindset.

You can also spend time in reflection. Asking yourself a variety of reflection questions without the distraction of our noisy world will stimulate a lot of personal growth.

Try making a point to not play any music or turn on any technology in the first hour of your day. That could even be all the silence you need.

Benefits

Now I’m not just gonna tell you to do these things without listing why you should include this step in your mornings.

So here are 3 benefits of having a silence practice first thing in the morning:

  • It allows your mind to slowly wake up, rather than being jolted into having to making decisions.
  • Silence stimulates creativity. You’d be surprised how many ideas will come to you in the morning before you’re forced into the noisy world.
  • Silence lowers your blood pressure and calms racing thoughts. Therefore starting your day with little to no stress in your body. You’ll feel relaxed and calm.

Related:

5 Benefits of Gratitude Practice

What is Mindset and Why is it Important

The Importance of Self Reflection

Move Your Body

While going to the gym first thing in the morning is very beneficial, it can take up a lot of time.

You can gain the benefits of moving your body in the comfort of your own home in as little as 5 minutes in the morning.

Here are some simple ways to move your body:

  • Stretch your body as you get out of bed
  • Do a 15 minute yoga practice
  • Go for a walk around the neighborhood

Or if you’re feeling really ambitious, you could do a quick 15 minute HIIT workout right in your living room. Just do a quick search on youtube to find short but beneficial ways to move your body in the morning.

Benefits

Moving your body right away in the morning has so many benefits. Here are 3:

  • Leads to better concentration levels throughout the rest of the day
  • Helps fill your lungs with oxygen and increase blood flow throughout the body
  • Helps you wake up faster so you don’t feel groggy throughout the day

Do Something You Love

Before you have to start tackling the tasks that need to get done each day you should make time to do something you love. Be it a hobby or your favorite activity, doing something you enjoy first thing in the morning gives you time to be by yourself before having to do stuff for others.

Think of activities you enjoy doing that you often don’t have time for throughout the day and include some time to do them in the morning.

Maybe you love sewing or knitting; reading or writing stories, or maybe you really enjoy learning and researching different topics that interest you.

Take just 15-30 minutes in the morning, before other people who need you get up, and do something for yourself.

This not only lifts your mood right away in the morning, but you will be able to serve others better because you’re not pouring from an empty cup.

Eat a Healthy Breakfast

This is the only thing in the morning that isn’t really a category of options because, honestly, you should really eat a healthy breakfast every morning.

We’ve always heard growing up that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. And well, they weren’t lying to you.

You haven’t put anything in your body for 6-8 hours and if you keep your body from food any longer it’s going to be hard for you to stay awake and focus on your work.

You don’t have to make some huge elaborate breakfast, but you should eat something that’s not just a pop-tart for breakfast. Instead, give yourself something with nutritional value.

If you’re worried about not having enough time to make breakfast in the morning, you could make something the night before. There are many pre-made breakfast options, you just have to take the time to research and figure out what you like.

I personally make a huge protein smoothie the night before so all I have to do in the morning is grab it out of the fridge and go.

I’ve also made overnight oats or freezer breakfast sandwiches.

The options are endless. Just make sure it’s something you look forward to eating, otherwise, you’ll skip this step entirely.

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Final Thoughts

If you choose an activity in each of these 4 categories you’ll be on your way to creating a morning routine that not only sets you up for success but that you also love and look forward to every night before you go to bed. Which will, in turn, make it easier for you to get up the next morning.

Plan your morning routine the night before and lay out everything you might need so that you’re brain doesn’t have to do much of the decision-making so early in the morning.

Have fun creating your very own morning routine specific to you because that’s the best way to start your day.

What are you going to include in your morning routine? Share with us the comments below.

More Blog Posts on Morning Routines:

10 Amazing Benefits of Waking Up Early and Having a Morning Routine

How to Stop Hitting Snooze | 5 Smart Tips for Breaking the Habit

The Incredible Magic of Having a Morning Routine

How to Create a Morning Routine and Stick To It

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20 Self Care Activities that Won’t Break the Bank

Often when people think of self-care activities they usually think of spending tons of money and time at the spa and getting your nails done by a professional.

Well let me tell you something, self-care doesn’t need to look Pinterest perfect.

You do not need to spend money to just take care of yourself. Self-care also doesn’t need to be time-consuming.

Don’t believe me?

Check out my list of 20 self-care activities that won’t break the bank.

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1. Have a cup of tea or coffee

This is my favorite and easiest self-care activity in my opinion. I already make coffee every morning so why not slow down and enjoy it.

Next time you have your morning coffee, take a couple of extra minutes to focus on the senses that are engaged when you have that first warm drink in the morning.

Meditate with it and only focus on the coffee in your hand.

Close your eyes and take in the delicious smell of coffee.

Here’s my favorite coffee at the moment. Did you know Bailey’s makes ground coffee? It is literally the best!

2. Go for a walk

Yes I know it’s the middle of winter right now but this is the most important time to get outside. Staying cramped up in the house all day isn’t good for your mental or physical health.

Bundle up in your favorite winter jacket, beanie, and scarf, and go for a short walk around your neighborhood.

Take in the vitamin D that your body needs and you’ll feel so refreshed by the time you get back in your warm house.

3. At home spa day

Believe it or not but you can create the ambiance of an expensive spa right in your home for a quarter of the price.

Fill up your bubble bath, add some inexpensive Epsom salt bubbles, and light a soothing candle.

You can even buy some pretty inexpensive facial face masks for pure relaxation.

I highly recommend all the products I’ve linked from Amazon. They are all inexpensive and really help create a spa-like atmosphere right in the comfort of your own home.

4. Read a book

Grab your favorite book, a cup of coffee or tea, your favorite comfy blanket, and curl up in your favorite spot in the house.

I love getting lost in a book and allowing my imagination to run wild.

Just giving yourself 30 minutes of uninterrupted reading time can help turn a stressful day upside down.

And remember your local library has tons of books you can check out for free! So there’s no excuse not to do this self-care activity.

5. Do a Youtube yoga video

The best part about the internet is you have access to so many free things from the comfort of your own home.

My favorite resource for free self-care is using Youtube to find yoga videos for relaxation.

This gentle and relaxing yoga flow by “Yoga with Adriene” is my favorite yoga routine to do when I just need to slow down and breathe. Try it for yourself.

6. Dance to your favorite song

Grab your phone, go to your favorite music streaming service (Pandora, Spotify, and youtube offer free options), and blast your favorite song.

Even on the most stressed out and depressing days, putting on some good music to sing and dance to makes me feel so much better.

Force a smile and start jumping around. You won’t regret it.

7. Do a quick clean up of the house

This may seem like a weird thing to have under self-care activities but believe it or not, the spaces around us can severely impact our mood.

Set a timer for 10 minutes and just pick up a few quick things. Clean off your desk or coffee table, make your bed and look at how much better the room looks.

That little bit of cleaning can wipe away the stress that a messy house gives.

8. Play and cuddle with your pets

I feel like animals were literally put on this earth to make us feel better. Just a few minutes of playing with my dog or cat always puts a smile on my face.

Plus they are awesome cuddle buddies.

Don’t have any pets? Go to the local animal shelter or humane society. Most shelters allow people to volunteer to spend time with the animals. It’ll make you and the animals happier.

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9. Unplug from social media for a day (or shut off your phone entirely if you can)

While social media has its perks, it can also result in some major anxiety.

Take some time to unplug from social media and do something that brings you joy like any of the activities listed so far.

This year I’ve tried to do no-social-media-Sundays and let me tell you, from just the couple of Sundays that I have done that I have felt so much better. I spend more time with my family than on my phone. Give it a try.

10. Go to a local park, library, or coffee shop, and do your work outside your home

Sometimes we don’t always have the time to take complete breaks from responsibilities.

However, you can change your surroundings.

Find a different place to work from for the day and take in the different scenery.

11. Go for a drive

Something that is very simple to do in order to take a break and clear your head is to go for a quick drive.

I personally love doing this after a fresh snowstorm and seeing the trees covered in white. Or in the fall when the leaves are changing colors.

Take in the beautiful views while relaxing on a short drive.

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12. Paint your nails

Again you don’t have to go to a nail salon to treat yourself.

Go to your local pharmacy or drug store and buy some nail polish for much cheaper than a salon would charge you.

Put on your favorite Netflix show and give yourself a manicure.

13. Look through your old photo albums or scrapbooks

I love looking at past photos of different adventures I’ve been on. It’s fun to remanence on past memories and be thankful for all the adventures you’ve been on so far in your life.

Don’t have pictures in a photo album or scrapbook?

Then take some time to print out some photos and make one. I find it so calming to scrapbook my favorite photos.

14. Watch a movie

Pop some popcorn and sit back and relax while watching your favorite movie.

No one ever said that watching tv wasn’t considered self-care, just be careful not to binging a show all day.

15. Rearrange your furniture

Tired of the same old look in your home?

Rearranging your furniture could be just what you need for a bit of change in your life.

While moving furniture may sound like more work than self-care, relaxing in your new and clean space can help you destress.

16. Write down five things you are grateful for

You can never go wrong with writing down what you are grateful for.

I love keeping a gratitude journal to look back at when I’m feeling down in the dumps.

This is something that can change your attitude immensely when your feeling stressed and overwhelmed

17. Take a nap

Sometimes in the middle of a long and stressful day, a nap can be exactly what you need to feel better.

Change into your sweats and take a quick nap to refresh yourself so you can finish the rest of your day with more energy.

18. Take a 10 minute mindful break

If you’ve been working for a while and you are starting to feel like your focus is drifting away, get up and walk over to your window.

Take in the view of the outdoors, or close your eyes and let the sunshine on your face.

I love doing this every morning as the sun rises. It can be super calming.

19. Get creative

Indulge in your favorite creative hobby.

Find something that gets your creative mind working like painting, scrapbooking, doodling, sewing, knitting, etc.

20. Color

Yep, coloring isn’t just for children anymore.

Recently there’s been a rise in Adult Coloring Books and man, I love them.

Remember how calming it was as a little kid to just sit and color. Well, you can do that as an adult too. It’s totally ok!

See! Self-care activities don’t have to break the bank.

It’s important that we learn to take some time to take care of ourselves. And taking care of yourself doesn’t have to be time consuming, selfish, or expensive.

Find your favorite simple self-care activity and treat yourself!

What are your favorite inexpensive self-care activities? Let me know in the comments below!

Interested in more self-care ideas? Check out my other posts on self-care:

9 Powerful Self-Care Books to Read

February Bullet Journal Set-Up: Self-Care Theme

17 Self-Care Ideas for Bad Mental Health Days

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