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How to Start a Journal | The Ultimate Guide to Building a Journaling Habit

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I’m gonna let you in on a secret. I used to suck at keeping a daily journal.

Almost every single one of my new entries would start with “sorry I haven’t written in a while…” I also used to have so many empty journals collecting dust on my shelf. Never in my life had I actually fully filled a journal.

That was the case, at least until just a few years ago.

In college, when I first got started on my personal growth journey, was when I finally got the habit to stick.

And in less than a year I finally filled up one of my journals.

Journaling has now become one of my favorite ways to start my day. After making a cup of coffee, it’s the first thing I do in my morning routine.

It helped me realize that I needed to drop out of college. It helped me get gain clarity on my goals and dreams for my life.

Journaling can help you in so many areas of your life (but more on that in a second).

If you are new to the world of journaling, this is article is designed to help you get started. You’ll learn how to start a journal from scratch, the different journaling methods and strategies, and how to make it into a habit.

Or maybe you’re like me –  you like the idea of starting or ending your day with journaling, but for the life of you, can’t make it into a daily habit.

Well, I’m going to let you in on a few secrets that will help you start the habit and keep it. So you can finally fill one of those countless empty journals around you house.

I’ll warn you, this is a long and detailed post, but I know you’ll get a lot of value from it. I would recommend pinning this article so you can come back to it again.

I’m so excited to welcome you to the world of journaling.

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How to Start a Journal: Find Your Why

The first step to start journaling is really simple. All you need is an empty notebook and a pen.

Yep, that’s it.

Well, I guess there might be a bit more to it.

Firstly, I recommend you dive deep into why you really want to start a journal in the first place.

Just like when you get starting building any new habit and routine, you need some way to keep you motivated, and that’s why I always recommend coming up with your “Why Statement”. This why statement should clearly articulate the reason or purpose behind why you want to build this new habit.

Start my asking yourself the following questions:

  1. Why do I want to start a journal?
  2. What do I hope to get out of it?
  3. What do I want to accomplish?

It’ll be much easier to build this new journaling habit if you understand WHY you actually want to do it. Once you have an answer, write it out as a full sentence like this:

  • I want to start journaling to better understand my thoughts and feelings and gain more clarity
  • I want to start keeping a journal on a regular basis to document my life and my memories.

Once you’ve done that, write it on a post-it or piece of paper that you can stick on the inside of cover of whatever you’re going to journal in. Read this statement every day to remind yourself why you are trying to build this into a habit.

Do you have your why? Awesome, now let’s actually get started.



The Benefits of Journaling

There are so many benefits of journaling.

My favorite benefit is that it allows me to slow down in this stressful and ever-changing adventure we call life.

As you realize how beneficial it is to journal daily, you’ll want to do it first thing every morning.

Here are some more journaling benefits to get you motived to start your journaling journey:

  • Gain clarity and focus
  • Increased productivity
  • Improves your mood
  • Makes you more likely to chase your goals
  • Boost confidence
  • Increase self-awareness
  • Decreases stress and overwhelm
  • And sparks creativity

There are No Rules When Journaling!

The best part about journaling is there are absolutely no rules.

You don’t have to be a good writer or have good handwriting.

Allow for mistakes, grammar errors, and messy handwriting. It’s all you.

Just let your stream of consciousness flow freely.

One of the main points of journaling is to learn how to express yourself in a carefree way when no one is watching.

There is no judgment in your journal because it’s your journal!

Different Types of Journals

Alright, now for the fun part. Let’s figure out which type of journaling you should start with.

Remember that you aren’t marrying this type right now. Pick one form to test out for a couple of weeks and then you can evaluate whether you want to stick with it or try a new one.

Every person will journal differently and the type of journaling you decide is best for you will be based on your WHY.

Remember how we discussed your why just a bit ago? Use the answer to those few questions to help you figure out what type of journaling will be best for you.

Here are 9 types of journals to choose from:

Bullet Journal

Bullet journaling has grown a lot in the past few years. Many people use it as a journal for productivity and goal setting. The overall concept was invented by Ryder Carroll and is best described as a mindfulness practice disguised as a productivity system. Head to Pinterest to see examples, there are tons of them over there.

Morning Pages

The idea of Morning Pages originated from the book “The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron, and the main idea is to do stream-of-consciousness writing. The morning pages are usually done in the morning when our brains are the most creative. No thinking allowed, just start writing until 2-3 pages are filled.

Gratitude Journal

This one is pretty self-explanatory. Many people recommend starting and ending the day by writing what you are most grateful for. If that doesn’t resonate with you, try asking yourself what made you the happiest today.

Dream Journal

Dream journals are devoted to your dreams. They can be dreams you have while you are sleeping or what you daydream about throughout the day. Either way, write down a few sentences every morning about a dream you had or what you dream of for your future self.

Brain Dumping Journal

A brain-dumping journal is the only type of journal that I’d say you should keep with you at all times. It is meant to be a place for you to jot down any new ideas whenever they come to you so you don’t forget about them.

Scrapbooks

Not many people think of the scrapbook as a journal type but it’s more than just a place for photos. You can gather memories, dreams, or create mood boards. Basically, a scrapbook is where you can gather a bunch of images and put them together in an artsy way that’s just you. And you can write about the images to add a story to each page.

The Dear Diary Journal

The most basic and common form of journaling. I probably don’t need to explain it. But for just a quick explanation, I like to think of the dear diary journal like you are telling your future self about anything you want. What you did that day, what you hope happens if you do something. Basically anything.

Guided Journals

If you still don’t know where to start, you could try a guided journal. The most popular one out there is the Five Minute Journal. It only takes 5-minutes every day to fill out. I’ll talk more about it soon.



When to Journal

It can be really easy to just toss your journal off to the side and save it for a rainy day, but most of the benefits we talked about earlier come from daily journaling.

It can be hard to implement at first if you are new to it. The best way to start a habit is to do it in small doses.

You don’t have to journal for a whole hour or aim to fill a whole page.

If you make a habit overwhelming, you will never actually start it.

Instead, start with setting aside just 1 minute every day to journal – just to start with.

Write about anything.

A minute isn’t a lot so the excuse of ‘I don’t have time’ won’t exist.

I would also recommend you journal at around the same time every day if you can. That way your brain can associate a time with a habit which will make it easier to be consistent.

You can also link it with an activity you already do – like drinking your coffee or right after you give your pet breakfast.

Whatever it is, linking journaling to an already existing habit will make it a ritual of your daily routine.


Journaling Supplies

Like I said at the beginning, you really don’t need a lot to start a journal. Just a notebook and a pen.

However, you can make journaling more appealing if you have a pretty journal and your favorite pen to write with.

Here are some supplies ideas to get you started:

Pretty Journals

Pens

Whiteout

Fun Stencils

Inspirational stickers


Famous Guided Journals on Amazon

The Five-Minute Journal

This is an un-dated guided journal that will boost your happiness in just 5 minutes a day. Each page includes thoughtfully designed prompts that include: gratitude, prioritizing your day, 3 amazing things, inspiring quotes, daily affirmations, and end of the day self-reflection. The Five-Minute Journal is known as “The Simplest Way to Start Your Day Happy”.

The Best Journal Ever

The Best Journal Ever is a guided 3-in-1 journal that includes a place for gratitude journaling, habit tracking, and monthly reflection. This undated journal has enough pages to get you through 6 months without needing to buy another journal. Each daily page includes a place to track your sleep, an inspirational quote, gratitude, affirmations, and a half-page for daily journaling.

A Year of Zen: A 52-Week Guided Journal

A Year of Zen Guided Journal combines the practices of Zen Buddhism with journaling to help you live mindfully, gain clarity and perspective, and let go of stress and worries. This journal includes journal prompts for every day of the year that inspire self-exploration, reflection, and mindfulness that will help you live a happier more fulfilled life.

The Untethered Soul Guided Journal: Practices to Journey Beyond Yourself

This guided journal is based on the New York Times bestseller The Untethered Soul. It offers new practices for inspiration, freedom, and joy. The exercises and prompts included in the journal are paired with the original passages from the book. The prompts will help you to live more in the present moment, and achieve lasting joy and self-realization.

Use Journal Prompts

If you are still struggling with trying to figure out what to write about, journal prompts can be a great way to get started.

Journal prompts are simple questions you ask yourself and then answer in your journal.

I have tons of different journal prompts on my Pinterest board to help you get started.

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Other Journaling Tips

Here are a couple more tips when it comes to starting a journal:

  • Start slow
  • Include journaling in your morning routine
  • Use journal prompts
  • Just try it and don’t make it a big deal
  • Go back and review what you’ve written to learn more about yourself
  • Draw, create art, use stickers; it doesn’t just have to be words
  • Have fun with it!

Final Thoughts on Journaling

Journaling should not be something you dread doing every day. Please don’t make it feel like a chore.

Journaling is a type of self-care that you do for yourself. Enjoy it.

I hope you found this guide on how to start a journal helpful and that you are excited to start developing your new journaling habit.

Let me know in the comments your favorite type of journaling and how it works for you.

Journaling has truly changed my life and I know it can change yours, too.

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Famous Guided Journals on Amazon

The Five-Minute Journal

This is an un-dated guided journal that will boost your happiness in just 5 minutes a day. Each page includes thoughtfully designed prompts that include: gratitude, prioritizing your day, 3 amazing things, inspiring quotes, daily affirmations, and end of the day self-reflection. The Five-Minute Journal is known as “The Simplest Way to Start Your Day Happy”.

The Best Journal Ever

The Best Journal Ever is a guided 3-in-1 journal that includes a place for gratitude journaling, habit tracking, and monthly reflection. This undated journal has enough pages to get you through 6 months without needing to buy another journal. Each daily page includes a place to track your sleep, an inspirational quote, gratitude, affirmations, and a half-page for daily journaling.

A Year of Zen: A 52-Week Guided Journal

A Year of Zen Guided Journal combines the practices of Zen Buddhism with journaling to help you live mindfully, gain clarity and perspective, and let go of stress and worries. This journal includes journal prompts for every day of the year that inspire self-exploration, reflection, and mindfulness that will help you live a happier more fulfilled life.

The Untethered Soul Guided Journal: Practices to Journey Beyond Yourself

This guided journal is based on the New York Times bestseller The Untethered Soul. It offers new practices for inspiration, freedom, and joy. The exercises and prompts included in the journal are paired with the original passages from the book. The prompts will help you to live more in the present moment, and achieve lasting joy and self-realization.

Use Journal Prompts

If you are still struggling with trying to figure out what to write about, journal prompts can be a great way to get started.

Journal prompts are simple questions you ask yourself and then answer in your journal.

I have tons of different journal prompts on my Pinterest board to help you get started.

Or sign up for my email list below to get a pdf printable of 30 personal growth journal prompts in checklist form to get you started right away.

Click here to subscribe

Other Journaling Tips

Here are a couple more tips when it comes to starting a journal:

  • Start slow
  • Include journaling in your morning routine
  • Use journal prompts
  • Just try it and don’t make it a big deal
  • Go back and review what you’ve written to learn more about yourself
  • Draw, create art, use stickers; it doesn’t just have to be words
  • Have fun with it!

Final Thoughts on Journaling

Journaling should not be something you dread doing every day. Please don’t make it feel like a chore.

Journaling is a type of self-care that you do for yourself. Enjoy it.

I hope you found this guide on how to start a journal helpful and that you are excited to start developing your new journaling habit.

Let me know in the comments your favorite type of journaling and how it works for you.

Journaling has truly changed my life and I know it can change yours, too.

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How to Do a Monthly Reflection | 15 Questions to Ask Yourself

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It’s almost the end of the month so it’s time for a monthly reflection. News flash, the beginning of a new year is not the only time you can set goals for yourself. In fact, you should be reviewing those big yearly goals every month.

By doing a monthly reflection each month, you can observe your personal growth and development on a smaller scale and adjust it to fit your lifestyle as you grow throughout the year.

I started doing a monthly reflection about 2 years ago and it has helped me tremendously to know myself better and make sure I’m always focusing on my goals.

Many people make goals or New Year’s resolutions in January, but by February they’ve lost motivation or completely forgotten what that goal was at all. By doing monthly reflections, you’ll have time to review those goals and plan for what your next steps are every month. Just imagine how many goals you could get done in a year if you stay focused every month.

Monthly reflections are not hard to do and don’t need to take a lot of time. I’m gonna walk you through what I do to review and reflect every month. Plus I have 15 monthly reflection questions for you at the end to help you dive deeper into your monthly check-in.

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What is a Monthly Reflection and Why Do One?

A monthly reflection is a time to review and reflect on your past month’s accomplishments, your goals, and where you are at with them. This is when you can take time to hit the pause button on life for a moment to decide how you want to keep moving forward.

Maybe you noticed you didn’t spend as much time on your goals as you would have liked. Or ate out too much and didn’t save as much money as you had hoped. Or you didn’t get to hang out with friends and family as much.

Each monthly reflection gives you a chance to start over, re-evaluate, and make a new plan.

You can set time to reflect every week, month, quarter, and year if you would like. But today we are just talking about a monthly reflection. This is the time for you to reflect on your routines, habits, and smaller goals.


Things To Reflect On Each Month

Monthly Wins

When sitting down to do a self-reflection, it is always a good idea to start with something positive about yourself. We often forget about our big accomplishments throughout the month cause we are always in a state of “go, go, go, go”. This reflection time is supposed to be a time to hit pause and acknowledge your hard work. Make sure to recognize your big and small wins.

On the flip side, if you didn’t have as many wins take that as a time to learn more about yourself and how you get things done.

Review Current Habits and Routines

Now it’s time to go into the details of your everyday habits and routines.

Did you make a plan to go to the gym 3 times a week and it didn’t end up working out at all? Are you finding yourself to be tired all the time cause you aren’t getting enough sleep?

Use this time to brain dump all the habits and routines in your life that may or may not be working for you. Then if something needs to change, make a plan.

Do you need to set out your gym bag the night before so you remember to go after work? Or do you need to buy a cute water bottle to encourage yourself to drink more throughout the day?

Make your habits and routines work for you.

Related:

How to Build New Habits with 8 Easy Steps

What is a Routines? Why are They Important?

Review Your Goals

It is a great idea to get in the habit of reviewing your goals every month. This will keep you on top of them and make you more likely to achieve them in a timely matter.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself when reviewing your goals:

  • Did I achieve my goal?
  • Did my approach work? Why or why not?
  • Is it something I still want to pursue?
  • How can I improve on actually getting it done?

One Positive Lesson

It is also good to end this reflection time on a positive note. Go back over your notes for the month and pick out one lesson you want to take away and learn from it.

Ask yourself how the lesson made you grow as a person and how you are going to apply it to your life this next month.

Your #1 Priority

Now that the reflection is basically done, go over your notes and decide on your #1 focus for next month.

You want to try and have just one main thing to focus on each month. Whether that’d be a project you’re working on or a certain area of your personal growth to work on, pick just one thing to prioritize next month.


15 Monthly Reflection Questions

After you go through the 5 things to reflect on above, grab a piece of paper and answer the rest of these questions. Each one will help you dive deeper into your monthly check-in.

Answer each question like a journal prompt. Take some time to really think about each question.

  1. What went well this month? What did I accomplish? How does it make me feel?
  2. What didn’t go so well? How can I improve for next month?
  3. What lessons did I learn this month? How did I grow as a person?
  4. What challenges did I face this month? How did I deal with them?
  5. What am I spending too little or too much time on?
  6. What didn’t go as planned? And how can I improve on it?
  7. Review any goals you set for this month. Did you reach them? Why or why not?
  8. Was there anything holding me back from reaching my goals?
  9. What goals do I have for next month?
  10. List 5 things that made you feel most grateful this month.
  11. What habits did I focus on this month and how did I do?
  12. Which habits should I continue working on next month? Why?
  13. Are there any bad habits I want to work on next month? Make an action plan.
  14. What new habits do I want to try and implement next month? Why?
  15. Overall, am I satisfied with how the month went? Why or why not?

Final Thoughts about Monthly Reflection

Try doing a monthly reflection every month for the next few months in a row and see how much more productive and motivated you are. By keeping up with it you have a higher chance of actually completing the goals or resolutions you set for yourself at the beginning of the year.

Wouldn’t it be cool to look back at 2022 next January and see that you actually completed all the goals you set out to do? Or even better, completed more goals than you thought you would?

It’s time to get ahead of your goals!

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How to Create a Morning Routine and Stick To It

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Are you ready to stop having crappy days where you’re tired all the time and unmotivated?

Then you need to make sure you’re starting your day on the right foot.

And in order to do that, you need to create a morning routine.

But hold on, before you go searching on youtube for the “perfect morning routine”, you need to know that everyone’s morning routine is different.

And it has to be, otherwise, it wouldn’t be created with your unique circumstances and likes and dislikes in mind.

Obviously, you wouldn’t have the same morning routine as an Olympic swimmer or a mother with 2 toddlers. That just doesn’t make sense.

You have to create a morning route that’s curated to your unique lifestyle.

And that’s exactly what we’re gonna do today.

This blog post contains my five-step process to create a morning routine that you love and that works for you and your lifestyle.

Let’s get started.

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Step 1: Review Your Current Morning Routine

Before you can start creating your “perfect” morning routine you need to review your current one.

Believe it or not, you already have a morning routine. If you pay attention, you’ll notice you do almost the same exact thing every morning.

Hitting snooze every morning may be part of your routine. Not eating breakfast or running out the door could also be a part of your routine.

Let’s take some time to examine your current routine.

Ask yourself these questions:

  • How early do you get up?
  • Do you have enough time to get ready before work/school?
  • Are you getting enough sleep?
  • Do you feel refreshed and ready to tackle the day?
  • Do you eat breakfast every morning?

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Step 2: Discover Your Why

If you want to stick to a new routine, you need to define your why. Why do you want to create a morning routine?

When you’re struggling to get out of bed, remembering why it’s important to you will be super helpful.

Maybe it’s because you don’t want to feel rushed out the door every morning. Or you want more time with your kids before they run to catch the bus. Or you want to start your day with some personal development time.

Whatever it is, write it down.

Why do you want to create a morning routine and what do you want to get out of it?

Step 3: Brainstorm the Possibilities

Alright, here’s where we have fun.

Now that you know your current routine and why you want to make it better, let’s decide what you want your new routine to look like.

Brainstorm what you want to include in your morning routine.

What do you want to achieve in your first hour of the day?

Write down all your ideas and how much time you would spend on them.

If you’re having troubles coming up with some ideas, check out this blog post for 20 Morning Routine Ideas that will Make You Want to Get Up

Step 4: Plan Out Your Morning Routine

Now that you have a list of things you want to include in your morning routine, write down what you want it to look like.

Try to build off your current routine if you can. That will make it easier to implement.

If you normally go straight to the shower when you get up, keep that the same but then add one of your new activities right after, like reading or journaling.

If you’re having a hard time deciding on your routine, make a couple of different possible routines.

You could try the first one for one week and then another one the week after.

And at the end of each week reflect on how you felt they went and if you need to change something.

Pro Tip: Most people don’t want to get up in the morning because they don’t have something to look forward to in their day. Include an activity in your morning routine that you love but don’t normally have time for during the day. This will motivate you to get up earlier so you have time for something you love.

Step 5: Create an Evening Routine

Congrats – you have a morning routine, but you’re not done yet.

Getting up feeling motivated and refreshed starts the night before so you need to create an evening routine too.

It doesn’t have to be as detailed as your morning routine, but pick a few activities that will wind you down before bed so you can fall asleep faster. And do a few things that will make your morning easier like setting out your outfit, or packing your lunch.

My evening routine includes a quick 15-minute clean-up, setting out my workout clothes, filling up my water bottle for the morning, and reading for 30-60 minutes.

Decide on the activities you will include in your evening routine that will help you carry out your morning routine.

Two Tips To Help You Get Up

Place your alarm clock across the room!

Yep, it’s as simple as that.

Many people have built a habit of grabbing their phone, pressing snooze, and rolling back over.

So put your alarm on the other side of the room so you have to get up to shut it off.

Stop using your phone as your alarm!

Another habit people have is shutting their alarm off on their phone and then scrolling through social media for the first half-hour they’re awake.

This not only wastes time but can also affect your mood and mindset for the rest of the day.

Instead, try this alarm clock.

This sunrise alarm clock is my favorite. I got it a couple of years ago and now refuse to use another alarm clock.

The alarm simulates the sunrise in your room. Using it has been life-changing because I get up way before the sunrises (yes even in the summer).

When you set the time for the alarm to go off you also decide what time to start the “sunrise effect”. You can choose to have it start 10-30 minutes before the alarm is set to go off. It will slowly get brighter and brighter throughout that time.

You also have the choice of alarm sounds that aren’t blaring and annoying first thing in the morning. I set mine to have birds chirping as my alarm.

With this sunrise alarm clock across the room, it lights up my whole room gradually to gently wake me up.

Try it for yourself. I will never go back to a regular alarm clock.

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Final Thoughts

Now that you have a morning routine and an evening routine, set your alarm to do your first new morning routine tomorrow.

Start with your evening routine tonight and you should be all set to have an awesome and productive day tomorrow.

Don’t procrastinate until next Monday or next week. There will never be a “better” day than right now.

Set your alarm and start each morning on the right foot with your own personal morning routine.

For more inspiration on morning routines, check out these books:

The Miracle Morning – Hal Elrod

The 5 am Club – Robin Sharma

College Students: I made a morning routine blog post specifically for you. Go check it out!

More Blog Posts on Morning Routines:

The Incredible Magic of Having a Morning Routine

10 Amazing Benefits of Waking Up Early and Having a Morning Routine

How to Stop Hitting Snooze | 5 Smart Tips for Breaking the Habit

20 Morning Routine Ideas that will Make You Want to Get Up

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